How can it be appreciated? When someone EXPECTS something from you that you didn't think of when they walked in the door with rosy cheeks and a grin so sharp it could slice shit, or something harder. Think-you're sitting, writing, dreaming, so occupied with your activity, and you expect your person, BUT NOT SOON, just eventually in the night, and he, she, it comes, "Surprise!" ANd you're glad, slightly, happy to see them, but they're a little happier. They kiss you, they lay you down, and hug you and you take it all well, but you're a busy...And when you want to get up to take a shower, you come out to a different person, a naked one. And when they see you clothed, they're upset.